Dear Pastor, Parents, Children/Teenage/Youth Teachers/Leaders, every girl around you should know this.
Sometimes we think they do. But from counseling, I discovered not all ladies especially the younger ones know these thing.
1) Sex is not Love.
Some ladies (especially the teens and younger females) still belive that if you love a Man, you prove it by giving him sex..
2) Men can and will Lie just to get Sex from Ladies.
The last lady I counseled give in because her boyfriend told her he would die if she didn’t allow him.
“My Doctor said if I don’t have sex, my testes would burst”
“I’m having blue balls, only sex can cure it”
And the biggest one…. “I’ll Marry you”
All Lies.. But not all girls know these tricks and many still fall for it albeit ignorantly and innocently.
3) Contraceptives and Preventive measures can fail.
Withdrawal can Fail.
Condom can fail
Virgins can get pregnant, Sperms can sip through and impregnate you while leaving your hymen still intact.
4) Women bear the brunt more when sex goes wrong.
Many guys deny the lady when things go south, Some will run away.
An unplanned pregnancy can alter your plans for life permanently if care is not taken, while the guy continues with his life..
Abortion puts your life and womb at stake, not his Life.
5) Sex doesn’t keep a Man
Common cliché, yet some ladies have never heard it/don’t understand it..
Sadly not every lady out there knows these, and the naive ones are taken advantage of on a daily basis. Spread the Word.
Every Lady (8 or 18yrs)Should know that closing their Legs in a Relationship is for their own Protection, you lose more once sex gets involved and when it goes it go south. Protect your future, Say No…
If he is ready and serious, let him wait and marry you..
SEX CAN WAIT. You should too.
Goshen Marriage Ministries Int'l 